A beginner's guide to: Acts of kindness

good deeds, altruism, charitable acts

Acts of kindness involve selflessly helping others, making a positive impact and creating real connections through small, thoughtful actions.

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What are acts of kindness?

Acts of kindness are about more than just being nice – they’re about making real, meaningful connections and being a kind person in your community. Whether it’s helping a neighbour, offering a few encouraging words or supporting a cause you care about, these small, thoughtful actions can truly make a difference. Each act of kindness has the power to lift someone’s spirits, foster a sense of community and even bring a bit of light to someone’s hard day. Ready to start making a difference, one small act at a time? Let’s explore how you can begin your journey of kindness today.

Why acts of kindness are good for you

Kind acts boost mood and social bonds while enhancing self-belief. You'll likely experience reduced stress, greater emotional clarity and a stronger sense of purpose.

Direct increase in giving habits

Focus area: Generosity (Impact rating: High)

Strong rise in positive mood

Focus area: Lightheartedness (Impact rating: High)

Clear boost to closeness

Focus area: Social connection (Impact rating: High)

Moderate self-esteem lift

Focus area: Identity & worth (Impact rating: Medium)

Moderate stress-buffer

Focus area: Resilience (Impact rating: Medium)

People who love acts of kindness

Mahatma Gandhi

Person

Keanu Reeves

Actor

Marcus Rashford

Sports

Pay It Forward (Movie)

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Ways to try it, what to expect, and how to stay safe. Read on!

We bet you’re itching to get some kindness out into the world, but it’s worth thinking about it a bit more deeply first and considering how you might go about it. Acts of kindness can be done in different ways, allowing you to choose a style that aligns with your personality and resources. To get the most out of this activity, these tips will help ensure you're set up for success.

Common styles

Random acts of kindness

Anonymous kindness

Online kindness

Safety

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Avoid situations where performing an act of kindness could put you or others in harm's way.

What you might experience

🤔

"Will this really make a difference?"

😬

"What if they don’t react well?"

😊

"That felt surprisingly good!"

😊

"I didn’t expect this to brighten my own day!"

💡

"I could do this more often!"

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Ancestry, history, facts and other trivia

In Pay It Forward (2000), a boy tries to change the world through random acts of kindness.

Kindness can release oxytocin, a hormone that lowers blood pressure and improves heart health.

Keanu Reeves is known for secretly funding hospitals and children's charities.

The concept of "random acts of kindness" gained popularity in the 1980s.

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Academic research we rate

Practicing Other-Focused Kindness and Self-Focused Kindness Among Those at Risk for Mental Illness: Results of a Randomized Controlled Trial

Nelson-Coffey, S. K., Bohlmeijer, E. T., & Schotanus-Dijkstra, M. (2021). Practicing Other-Focused Kindness and Self-Focused Kindness Among Those at Risk for Mental Illness: Results of a Randomized Controlled Trial. Frontiers in Psychology, 12. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2021.741546

Comparing the effects of performing and recalling acts of kindness

Ko, K., Margolis, S., Revord, J., & Lyubomirsky, S. (2019). Comparing the effects of performing and recalling acts of kindness. The Journal of Positive Psychology, 16(1), 73–81. https://doi.org/10.1080/17439760.2019.1663252

Rewards of kindness? A meta-analysis of the link between prosociality and well-being.

Hui, B. P. H., Ng, J. C. K., Berzaghi, E., Cunningham-Amos, L. A., & Kogan, A. (2020). Rewards of kindness? A meta-analysis of the link between prosociality and well-being. Psychological Bulletin, 146(12), 1084–1116. https://doi.org/10.1037/bul0000298

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